Week 36
12. Combining other fashions with lolita.

12. Combining other fashions with lolita.

If you’ve read any of my other entries you already know the answer to this: I don’t.
I have absolutely 0 interest in wearing lace, frills, and fru-fru outside of Lolita, and honestly it shows as well already in my Lolita style.
I’ve tried more than once incorporating cute/kawaii sort if pieces into a normie outfit but I just cant stand it in the end honestly. My normie clothes are more of a costume to me than Lolita, so I have a very narrow view of what I use in this “setting” for lack of better terms. That doesn’t mean I don’t have fun or don’t care about my normie clothes because lord I do. I have to look good. I like dressing and looking good. I take pride in my clothes [of which I say is different than taking pride in one’s appearance].I have a style, and i like my style, and i'd like to keep my style evolving or trying to reach the ideal for each one as much as i can. It makes me feel ill to be completely dressed lets say in a “let-go” manner and I’ve had breakdowns and such from not being able to dress exactly how I want more than once.
In reality to make my life easier actually; I have 3 wardrobes.
A work, a normie, and a Lolita wardrobe.
Some pieces from my normie wardrobe have been incorporated from work but never the other way around, and usually when something makes its way from normie to work it stays there- tainted by the putrid fumes which is office-casual workwear. I could honestly say each is a capsule wardrobe in and unto themselves and that therein is what makes my life so much easier when getting dressed for each.
In a way honestly, I have 3 different wardrobes because there’s 3 different me’s.
The people at work have never- and I don’t want them to see the normie me [much less the Lolita me], normie wear is for school and other sort of settings of that manner, when I’m seen in workwear by this group I hate it because shit I know I look nice but this isnt the place for these clothes. And Lolita is Lolita. It’s a true sort of me, a me that’s doing what they want when they want and having as much fun as they can possibly have whilst doing so!
The people at work have never- and I don’t want them to see the normie me [much less the Lolita me], normie wear is for school and other sort of settings of that manner, when I’m seen in workwear by this group I hate it because shit I know I look nice but this isnt the place for these clothes. And Lolita is Lolita. It’s a true sort of me, a me that’s doing what they want when they want and having as much fun as they can possibly have whilst doing so!
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