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34. Wardrobe blunders! Things I bought that I ended up regretting!
Hmmmm… I’ve bought and then sold many things without having worn them- its rare I jump the gun on items honestly- but to pick out and say I “regretted” buying something is like close to impossible for me. I put in way too much thought into what it is I want in my wardrobe and keep a pretty clear list of the few remaining things I seriously still want. I buy things because there's a role to be played by the piece in my wardrobe- like when i bought a burgundy VCastle blouse from taobao. I had wanted a red blouse, and i regretted having not preordered the recently released red back pintuck blouse by BABY, so to avoid further fear of missing out i got the VCastle one. I never wore it though and by fall of 2025 BABY released back pintuck blouses in red again and i quickly preordered one, leading me to sell the unworn VCastle one. I've already worn the BABY one now a handful of times!
I buy things because there is a distinct lack of it in my wardrobe, be it because its a basic or because i want to try something in particular with a coord [like when i wanted to do a complete blue coord with my blue tartan jsk. Regardless despite how it looks and what i say i'm unable to buy things for the sake of buying - i mean i dont have the disposable income to do so lol.
Of course there have been items which i wish could have been exactly what i wanted rather than having to settle for what was available - like the size S Ekaterina jsk situation. But to say i felt regret is just not the reality of it all. The feeling of having to settle is quite distinct from that of regretting a decision made- i sure have regretted NOT making decisions though and not taking opportunities, and thinking for just too long. I've also been slightly regretful of some things I've sold- but i always had good reason and want to do so then so i can't let myself dwell along on such decisions.
Anyways this is a question for a more impulsive person i suppose, and even if i am- its a level of impulsiveness which i construe to be completely warranted and entailed to, so I'll come to never voice regret for i had reasons which i constructed out of my own reasoning in the first place!
My wardrobe has "gaps" to fill to be complete - it needn't simply grow like a prized hog! and its current size already drives me up the walls!
Thanks for reading!
I buy things because there is a distinct lack of it in my wardrobe, be it because its a basic or because i want to try something in particular with a coord [like when i wanted to do a complete blue coord with my blue tartan jsk. Regardless despite how it looks and what i say i'm unable to buy things for the sake of buying - i mean i dont have the disposable income to do so lol.
Of course there have been items which i wish could have been exactly what i wanted rather than having to settle for what was available - like the size S Ekaterina jsk situation. But to say i felt regret is just not the reality of it all. The feeling of having to settle is quite distinct from that of regretting a decision made- i sure have regretted NOT making decisions though and not taking opportunities, and thinking for just too long. I've also been slightly regretful of some things I've sold- but i always had good reason and want to do so then so i can't let myself dwell along on such decisions.
Anyways this is a question for a more impulsive person i suppose, and even if i am- its a level of impulsiveness which i construe to be completely warranted and entailed to, so I'll come to never voice regret for i had reasons which i constructed out of my own reasoning in the first place!
My wardrobe has "gaps" to fill to be complete - it needn't simply grow like a prized hog! and its current size already drives me up the walls!
Thanks for reading!
AATP checkered bag, BTSSB novelty heart shaped mirror, AATP Francesca frill headdress, Jane marble blouse ivory by Francesca 
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